The #1 threat to your job

The 1 threat to your job The 1 Threat To Your JobPosted May 9, 2014, by Molly Wiltshire-Bridle Its bedrngnis the next global financial crisis. Its not being outperformed by robots. Its not even your unusual preference for early morning desk tai chi. The biggest threat to your job is probably sitting right beside you. Or laughing uproariously at your bosss dad jokes. Or swiping your lunch from the fridge. Thats right. The biggest danger facing your continued employment is the very people you work with. Over the past few years, weve been conducting a poll of people taking a look at our ever-popular sample resignation letters, to find out exactly what it is thats driving employees towards the nearest exit. Over 50 per cent of respondents indicated that they were penning their goodbyes because of a co-worker. More specifically, because they cant stand their colleagues and/or boss. Thats a pretty big call. The results speak volumes for the prevailing climate in Australian workplac es. Less than 20 per cent of quitters were exiting with the intention of climbing the career ladder. An even smaller proportion told us that the quest for more cash was their motivator. These figures suggest that a) were a pretty unambitious bunch, and, more importantly, b) we realllllllllllllllllly dont like one another. To put things into perspective, have a look around the table the next time youre sitting in a meeting. More than half of the people in the room with you are going to quit on account of a co-worker. If youre annoying enough, perhaps even because of you. The reality is that in the current, highly volatile job market, most of us cant afford to be flippant when it comes to our employment choices. It might seem tempting to present Helen from HR with your middle finger and interpretive danceyour way out the door now, but a few months (and several packets of 2-minute noodles) later, hindsight is inevitably going to kick in. So before you let the sycophants and pilfe rers push you into career exile, lets take a few moments to dig a little deeper into whats really fuelling the conflict. Wheres the love? The reality is we wont be best friends with everyone we work with, however if we have a strong enough professional relationship based on trust and respect, we give ourselves a far greater option of achieving harmony in the workplace, which leads to improved performance. Leading Teams facilitator Jim Plunkett knows a thing or two about the potential impacts of dissonance in the workplace. The employment relations gurus at Leading Teams have formed the backbone of their business on helping everyone from sporting teams to corporate employees to foster open, honest and constructive dialogue. Without effective communication, says Plunkett, the office becomes a ticking time bomb. Often the reason that conflict occurs in a workplace is because staff dont have strong, open, professional relationships, and this makes them much more reluctant to chall enge poor behaviours. So what can we do about it? Dont just stand there When poor behaviours arent challenged, this is acknowledgement that these behaviours are an accepted part of that workplaces culture, and can also lead to other employees adopting these behaviours, says Plunkett. Weve all seen it before. One person leaves their dirty dishes in the sink, and before you know it, youve got a festering pile-up on your hands. Its an infectious pattern that can be witnessed across just about every aspect of the workplace. So dont just stand there A troublesome co-worker or two shouldnt have you calling it curtains. Heres what you can do Step 1 Confront your co-worker But not before making an introspective assessment of your role in the conflict often, the greatest lever can be your own behaviour. Failing that, be honest, but keep it professional. You may even find that your co-worker isnt aware of how their actions are impacting those around them, and is more than willing to work towards an agreeable solution. Step 2 Speak to your supervisor Be upfront and direct, but also reasonable. Its a good idea to come prepared with a list of specific examples of where you feel your colleagues work wasnt up to scratch, as well as the ways that youve already tried to remedy the situation on your own. Step 3 Weigh up your options If steps one and two havent done the trick, then it may be time to issue yourself an ultimatum should I stay or should I go?If you decide that, despite your best efforts, the relationship really is untenable, just be sure to have a contingency plan in place before you declare a conscious uncoupling. Whos managing the managers? And finally, lets not forget the pivotal role played by management, in any case of co-worker contention. Poor management breeds poor workplace culture, and the end result is often a whole lot of unhappy staff. When you create an empowered environment you often see a rapid change in attitude from this is just a job to this is what Im responsible for, says Plunkett. Mangers take heed. Simply opening up your office channels of communication could make a world of difference to productivity. The stronger the relationship, particularly under pressure in challenging situations, the better teams can work through issues and come out the other side better, stronger, and more unified. If youre an employee suffering under a stifling regime of mismanagement and acrimony, then I can only refer you back to Step 3. Youll find a mobilfunktelefon assortment of resignation letter templates righthere. So, what exactly should we take from all of this? If youve got a beef with a couple of co-workers, consider it par for the course. If 99 per cent of the office is grating you the wrong way, then youve probably got a leadership issue on your hands. But if all youre seeing is sunshine and rainbows. well, theres a good chance that youre the problem. Theres only one thing for it get diagnosed. With the right tre atment, your career prognosis might not be so dire after all. Has a co-worker clash ever had you penning your resignation? Did you manage to overcome the conflict? We want to hear from you Leave a comment below. 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